It’s not that I don’t believe in Santa, I do with my whole heart. I love Santa and what he represents; the spirit of the Christmas season, the joy that comes to the faces of both little kids & big kids, and all the excitement that is to be had for the jolly old man. Yet for our little family, we are on quite a different path of celebrating Santa than most.
J has never been excited for Santa or for him to come Christmas Eve. I’m not even sure he truly understands the concept of the Christmas season, let alone Santa. To him it’s just another day of getting up, getting ready, eating his pop tart & drinking his chocolate milk while watching PBS kids.
J has never wanted to sit on Santa’s lap. He’s never wanted to visit him or to tell him what he really wants for the big day. It’s rather a screaming fit if we go anywhere near the white bearded man.
J has never wanted to write a letter to Santa or has even asked us to help him do so. No North Pole letters coming from our home. No letters explaining how he’s been good or a list of what toys or books he wants this year.
In fact, J has never been able to show or tell us what he’d like for Christmas, or even his birthday (which is also this month). He’s unable to communicate his desires for gifts and again, I’m pretty sure he doesn’t understand the point of presents. It has taken him years to be okay with unwrapping a gift and even now he can only partake so long due to sensory issues. It’s gift bags for us. All I really want is to find that one gift , just one, that when J sees it his faces lights up with excitement. Maybe this will be the year.
So all of this Santa business isn’t J’s cup of tea and even though our Christmas traditions are nowhere close to what we experienced growing up, we’ve tried to make the holiday season special just for us. It hasn’t been easy, but we focus on the aspects J does enjoy instead of the ones he doesn’t. The Muppets Christmas Carol movie is a staple in our household, walking through all the Menards Christmas decorations multiple times on our visits is a must, and enjoying the heck out of our new Christmas Santa clock tower that lights up and plays music is a daily if not hourly occurrence (thank gosh is has an off switch!).
Though we don’t celebrate Santa as I enjoyed doing growing up, our ways of celebrating are just as important & special.